Good men often they remain without proper female attention only for the reason that they do not know how to properly make the right impression on a lady. One of the most common problems for men is the lack of skills and experience in giving flowers. The time has come to comprehend this simple science and climb higher on the ladder of winning female attention.
Men who consider bouquets to be unnecessary brooms would do well to know that flowers are a subtle tool that helps to properly tune the capricious female nature. Seeing a bouquet in the guy’s hands, the girl immediately changes her face, becoming kinder and more gentle.
Those representatives of the stronger sex who have already mastered flower therapy skillfully use it and cajole their friends as needed. Just one bouquet can soften the blow after being late for a meeting, missing an evening call, or going to football with friends.
It is advisable to give flowers as often as possible, this is especially important during the period of candy-bouquet relationships. You definitely need to buy a bouquet for symbolic dates from the day you met: a month, six months, a year, and so on. It is especially important not to forget about such traditional flower holidays as March 8, Valentine's Day and birthdays.
First of all, you should take into account the lady’s taste preferences. The ideal bouquet always consists of the girl's favorite flowers. This takes into account the types of plants, colors, design method and packaging. Also, when composing compositions, the season and lifespan of the cut buds are taken into account.
Young girls can be given small bouquets of violets, small roses and miniature carnations, tied with a ribbon to match the petals. Beloved ones are allowed to present red flowers, symbolizing desire and passion. It is appropriate for young women to be presented with bouquets with open buds, but for older ladies it is better to choose plants that have not had time to bloom.
Another important detail that is worth paying attention to is the number of buds in the bouquet. Most girls are very superstitious, so you should play it safe and count the contents of the package - there must be an odd number of flowers.
It is very important not only to choose a suitable bouquet, but also to present it correctly. According to etiquette, flowers are supposed to be held in the left hand, and after greeting, transfer them to the right hand and give the bouquet to the girl. Huge armfuls can be held and handed with both hands.
If the bouquet is given indoors, the packaging must be removed first. This rule does not apply to packages that decorate a flower arrangement. In this case, the bouquet is given in the form in which it was purchased, and in the same form it is placed in the water.
And lastly, don’t skimp on your smile and beautiful words handing over a bouquet. An admiring glance and slight embarrassment will do their job, and the lady’s heart will definitely melt!
Many guys are convinced that girls like the candy-bouquet period. They're half right - they really like him.
But when it comes to it, giving flowers not only does not increase, but also decreases the sexual attractiveness of a guy in the eyes of a girl. That is why many seducers are categorically against giving a girl flowers.
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If you want to learn how to seduce girls and build really great relationships with them, then you need to act based on knowledge about the nature of attraction.
Attraction occurs in girls due to influence of their instincts on the emotional part (by the way, this is why it is useless to convince girls logically - they will still act in accordance with their emotions, and not their reason).
The nature of any girl forces her to look for a strong guy as a partner (in this way, she will be sure that she will preserve her offspring and will be safe). A strong guy is always surrounded by a lot of girls, and he doesn't have to make much effort to attract them. They do all the “work” for him.
Of course, if a guy has strength (by strength I mean a moral component), this does not mean that he will not do something nice for his partners. On the contrary, he does it, and the girls, in turn, get great pleasure from it.
But the situation changes when the pleasant thing is done not by a high-ranking (not morally strong) guy, but by a low-ranking guy, i.e. the one who is deprived of female attention, feels the need for girls and “clings” to every one with whom he can at least do something.
Those. in the first case, the guy does this because he just wants to please the girl, without expecting anything in return. And in the second - because he wants to attract her attention in this way.
Do you feel the difference?
Now let's talk about why seducers start to get angry when they are asked about what date they should give flowers and.
The fact is that girls are already accustomed to the fact that flowers are given by those guys who have low ranking potential (i.e. morally weak guys, deprived of female attention). And every time a guy gives a girl flowers, in her head an image is automatically generated needy guy. After which the girl “intensely” begins to throw various kinds of tests at the guy in order to determine how confident and morally strong he is.
And often after such checks, guys make a large number of mistakes that kill all their sexual attractiveness.
Of course, this process does not always happen. And in order to prevent this from happening, it is important not only to know on what date to give flowers, but also how and under what circumstances this should be done.
Only in this case can you not lose the girl’s interest and become even more attractive in her eyes than before.
Rule #1. Give a girl flowers only after sex.
Why is that?
Before sex occurs, the girl continues to analyze the guy. She tries to understand who he is, what his character is, how confident he is, etc. I just told you that if you give a girl flowers, the girl will automatically begin to form a wrong impression about you, and she will begin to test you.
Although there is an exception to this rule: you can give flowers before sex, but only if there is a clear hint that it will happen (you feel that it will happen today).
In all other cases there are no exceptions.
Rule #2. Give when a girl is interested in you.
Despite the fact that seducers are against giving flowers, girls still love to receive them. They love courtship, and romance does not deteriorate the relationship in any way.
But they can only accept courtship from those men who are truly interesting to them.
Therefore, make sure that the girl also has some feelings for you. In fact, it doesn’t really matter what date you give the girl flowers on! You can give them on the first or second date (for example, if after meeting in a nightclub you had sex with a girl, and then you both realized that you have excellent prospects in a relationship).
Answer the following questions for yourself:
The fewer positive answers, the more likely it is that flowers are not worth giving.
Ever tried bringing flowers to a first date? Now you know why things never worked out with that girl. Or I'm wrong?
Rule #3. Give if you have developed a quality relationship with the girl.
And then it won’t matter what date you give flowers on. If your relationship has gained momentum in as soon as possible, then you can do it a little earlier (even if sex, as such, has not yet happened, but you are sure that it will happen soon).
Rule #4. Give flowers outside the box!
If you compare two guys: one will simply give flowers, and the other will do it in an original way, then, of course, the second one will “win.”
Always try to make your gifts original. Especially when it comes to giving flowers. For example, you can simply hold the same rose in your hands when your date is just beginning, or you can make it suddenly appear in your hands. Or you can make a rose out of a napkin and then have it turn into a real one.
There are plenty of options. The main thing is to turn on your imagination.
Rule #5. Be ready for inspections!
You already know: when you give a girl flowers on any date, there is a danger that she will start checking you out more and more often than other guys.
Therefore, be prepared for her checks. This could be a simple show of disrespect (unpleasant words addressed to you, being late, etc.) or she will become more careful about how much you need her attention. For example, he will refuse meetings, try to reschedule them, etc.
As you understand, your reaction to her refusals should show your independence. Remember: if she refused, it’s okay, you’ll still find something to do with yourself and continue to communicate with her positively.
I've lost my mind! In general, the topic of inspections requires detailed disclosure throughout the entire article, and not just one paragraph. But very soon you will be able to study this topic in more detail.
And that's all for now! Observe these simple rules and then you won’t be afraid that the flowers you give will ruin the relationship that hasn’t really begun.
Finally, a short video where a guy makes an epic mistake with flowers, and immediately makes another one.
Whatever gift you give a girl, giving flowers in addition to it is good manners. You can, of course, get by with just a beautifully decorated bouquet, or you can make the flowers turn into a separate gift that your beloved girl will remember for a long time. If you are thinking about how to give flowers to a girl in an unusual way, then here are ten interesting ideas:
The essence of this surprise is that you bring a girl to a cafe, having previously booked a certain table. First, you need to agree with a friend or one of the cafe employees so that he can attach a rose to the bottom of the table with tape in advance. The tape must be of high quality and wide so that the flower does not fall off at the most crucial moment. Then ask the girl to close her eyes, take out a rose, and when she opens them, give it to her.
More difficult option How to give a rose in an original way - first fold it from a napkin, then tell the girl “close your eyes, now I’ll improve it a little” and take out a real one instead of a paper one. Magic!
How to make a rose from a napkin, watch this video:
One of the increasingly popular options for how to give flowers in an original way is a bouquet in a box. Under the flowers you can hide a small surprise or sweets: sweets, bright macarons, and fruits. There are tall boxes with a second compartment for the main gift, in which case the flowers serve only as packaging. The box can be closed or open, and then the flowers will protrude from it. Among other things, such a gift can also become an interior decoration.
If you want to surprise your girlfriend, order a truly elegant and delicate gift for her - peonies in a box. Such compositions are created by professional florists taking into account the compatibility of colors, so they will be harmonious and elegant. And don’t worry about the safety of the gift: the kit usually includes instructions that tell you in detail how to care for such a bouquet, and a means for extending the life of the flowers.
Today you can find in flower shops (or make it yourself, your loved one will definitely appreciate it) complex compositions of flowers and sweets or even soft toys. A bouquet with miniature bear cubs or kittens will melt the heart of any girl!
A more complex and expensive option for an unusual way to give flowers to a girl is a toy made from fresh flowers. Kittens, bear cubs, elephants, hedgehogs, owls and even snails and crocodiles - they make so many things out of flowers! When choosing such a gift, do not forget to ask the seller how to properly care for it, and then tell the future owner so that the flower animal lasts as long as possible.
Suitable if your loved one lives on the second floor or higher. We buy several balloons filled with helium (enough so that they can hold your bouquet), tie the flowers and lift the composition on a string to the girl’s balcony or window. Then we call our beloved and ask her to go out onto the balcony. Delight guaranteed!
How to give flowers beautifully in winter? Make an "ice rose". To do this, you need to buy a small rose (as fresh as possible, otherwise it may simply crumble before creativity begins). Take plastic bottle volume 1.5 l. Cut off the bottom and place the rose inside. Fill it with cold water, preferably boiled or distilled, so the ice will be cleaner. Close the cap, seal the bottle with tape on the other side and place this entire structure in the refrigerator overnight (if it’s winter, you can go to the balcony). When the water freezes, remove the resulting composition from the bottle and adjust the shape of the ice using hot water. A defrosted flower can be placed in a vase: it will last for a long time.
The second option is not to fill the rose with water, but to put it in the cold and periodically spray it with a spray bottle. Then the ice will freeze in thin layers, and you will get a very delicate composition.
For the desperate - at night, while the lady of your heart is sleeping, you can carefully climb onto her balcony and install the resulting composition behind the glass.
This is at the same time the simplest and most romantic option. Suitable for those who live together or who have keys to their loved one’s house. While she's at work, you can strew the girl's bathroom, bed, or entire apartment with rose petals. Romantics can add twilight and small lit scented candles (just remember fire safety!). If a girl drives a car, she may be pleased with rose petals in the car.
An option is to lay out a confession of your feelings or her name with rose petals, for example, when meeting you at the airport.
To do this, you will have to negotiate with a company that deals with industrial mountaineering. Using special equipment, employees will go up to the girl’s window and hand her a pre-prepared flower arrangement. If the company meets you halfway, then after the safety briefing you will be able to do it yourself, and your beloved will certainly be delighted with your heroism and fearlessness.
8. "Prince on a White Horse"
This method of delivering the bouquet will also have to be agreed upon in advance. Call a girl to a park where there are horse rides, go away for a minute under some insignificant pretext - and then appear in front of your chosen one on a white horse and with flowers!
Does your loved one love riddles? Arrange a small quest for her: in each previous task the place where she will find the next one will be encrypted. Well, in the finale, of course, you are with a gorgeous bouquet!
Yes, yes, no matter how old this method is, it remains relevant today! If you just want to hint about your feelings, collect a bouquet of flowers that have the meaning you need, and hint to the girl that this is a secret message that she must decipher.
Many men focus on how best to give flowers to a girl so that the gift is beautiful and impressive, but they forget about the little things that can ruin the impression. How to give flowers correctly so that they bring only pleasant emotions?
What could be more banal than flowers as a gift? Many guys, like the author in fact, do not share the idea of obligatory gifts for Valentine's Day, March 8 and other holidays that occur almost every day. And in each of them your girlfriend is waiting for some kind of sign of attention. And here you might think: “Hey, why should I spend money on buying something that, at best, will end up in the trash in a week?”
However, you underestimate one factor, namely: the girl’s emotional reaction to your gift. You see, the same can be said about any thing and even a feeling, for example, orgasm. Well, why have sex and have an orgasm when the sensations will go away in a few minutes? Now you understand what we want to convey to you, saying that flowers are not at all a useless gift, especially if they are presented with all our hearts, and not necessarily strictly on holidays.
To be more convincing, we will tell you about the facts that will prove that flowers are a great gift.
Flowers are a great way to make a girl think of you every time she looks at the bouquet. Here, of course, you can choose a small collection of wildflowers, but it is better to give a large and bright bouquet. Why? So that she pays attention to him more often and remembers your romantic act.
Good mood lifter
If your friend is depressed or just not in the mood, then there is no better gift than her favorite flowers. The bouquet will drive away melancholy and give a romantic mood. Before you give a girl flowers, be sure to find out which ones she likes best.
Flowers make you sexy
Seriously. Studies have shown that a man holding a bouquet of flowers or even just one flower in his hands looks more attractive to girls. What is not an incentive to give you beautiful bouquet on the first date? This way you will earn extra points in this challenging game called “Charm the Girl”.
Great way to surprise
Of course, in terms of effectiveness, a bouquet of flowers with a surprise inside cannot compete with a huge cake from which a model/pony/new Mercedes jumps out. But still, this is what will hide the main present until the right moment. So, for example, if you are embarrassed to confess your love to a girl, you can put a note in the bouquet. When a girl puts flowers in a vase, she will definitely find it.
Answer to the question: what to give?
We think you’ve often come across the question: “What to give a girl?” and didn’t know the answer. So, flowers are a gift that does not require brain strain and solving the difficult dilemma of “which one to choose?” It’s enough to know what flowers she likes, and that’s it. Then you just need to choose the quantity (remember that you need to give an odd number, right?) and a beautiful gift wrapping. This way you will save both time and effort on finding a gift. But it’s better not to abuse this - after all, flowers most often come with the main gift.
1. Give flowers for no reason. Just buy and give without paying attention to the dates on the calendar. Well, plus, if she says something like: “You are so sensitive, and you haven’t forgotten about our anniversary,” then for such a sign of attention you will receive the title “Romantic of the Year.”
2. Before giving flowers, make sure that the girl is not allergic to pollen. Just ask this question not directly, but in the context of the conversation.
3. Don’t give flowers with too strong a scent to a girl living in a small apartment. A pleasant smell is good, but if it is intrusive, then after some time a bouquet of flowers from a gift will turn into a hindrance.
4. If your girlfriend likes gifts that will make her happy for more than a week, then instead of a bouquet of flowers, give her a pot of a plant. Very beautiful and pleasantly smelling - Gardenia Jasmine, however, this is a flower with a very bright jasmine aroma, so when choosing a plant in a pot, do not forget about the third tip.
You don't have to go to a flower shop (thank you the Internet). You can choose a bouquet of flowers, for example, on the website Buketleta.ru, and it will be delivered to you anywhere in Moscow and the Moscow region in just a couple of hours. Delivery is free, the selection of bouquets is large, as is the store’s experience.
And don't be corny. Don't focus on roses (even if all the girls love them), you can have chrysanthemums, tulips, alstroemerias, gerberas, irises, orchids. Even if the flowering season has not yet arrived for them, you can order these flowers at Buketleta at any time of the year. In a bouquet or in an original box where you can put your note with a declaration of love or a greeting card.
The girl is a very fragile, soft and gentle creature. Sometimes, to us men, they resemble flowers. Such charming creations of God. It can be assumed that each girl has her own flower, which characterizes her character, grace, charm and is most suitable for her.
If you look closely at the object of your adoration, you can determine the flower that it resembles. 
But by the way, this is all romance, and we will try to understand the essence of the topic itself, namely, How often should girls be given flowers that characterize their complex essence.
It is almost impossible to find a single normal girl in the world who does not like flowers. And this opportunity must be used as best way express your sympathy to a girl. And probably no one will tell you about this better than such a hopeless romantic as me.
Yes. I really love giving flowers. At one time I simply bombarded my girls with these gentle creatures.
I gave them in bouquets, I gave them one at a time, I gave them in pots, I gave them live and artificial.
He gave it to almost strangers and gave it to his most beloved.
He gave it every day, and even several times a day - every time he saw Her. My girlfriend's apartment has always looked like a small flower greenhouse full of magnificent colors and smells.
And it would seem that the girl should simply shine with happiness from such an abundance of flowers. However, after some time, I discovered one strange and not very clear feature for me. It turns out that they gradually ceased to please many girls.
At least not the way it happened in the early days. Having figured out this problem, I realized that in this situation the effect of addiction was at work, or, alternatively, “what becomes necessary ceases to bring satisfaction to people.”
Like, for example, sex, which, when it becomes a family responsibility, becomes less romantic and girls (as well as men) begin to be drawn to the side.
A little later, and not without the help of competent people, it was possible to identify one formula. Flowers, as well as other gifts accompanying expressions of sympathy, are good in moderation.
No matter how much you love the object of your adoration, if you want the girl to constantly rejoice at your floral outpourings in her direction, flowers need to be given, using only the most suitable moments for this.
Optimally once or twice a week at first and then a little less often. And if for some events it is customary to give a bouquet decorated properly, then for simple meetings it is enough to give just one flower without any cellophane, which turns it into something inaccessible...
The flower should be free, proud or cute and definitely light!
On first dates, flowers are usually given at the beginning of the meeting. As they say, people are greeted by their clothes. However, you must take care that it does not dry out before it gets into the vase at the girl’s house. The most suitable option is to give flowers towards the end of the meeting.
There are times and very often, especially when you are sitting in public place, the couple begins to be embarrassed by women who walk around and offer to buy a flower for their passion.
At the same time, both the man and his girlfriend immediately begin to feel embarrassed. The man because for some objective reason (no money, not his girlfriend, etc.), and the girl simply because in Her presence they offer to give Her flowers to the man who is nearby. Awkward situation. And what is the way out of it?? 
The most banal thing is to just take it and buy it. However, if this is not possible, I recommend politely telling the woman a phrase (so that the girl can hear) something like this: “Sorry, but I will definitely present them to her a little later, though in a different place.”
This way, you won’t refuse the gift and at the same time let the girl know that there will be flowers, but a little later. And then the card will fall, I think she will understand if anything happens.
Another interesting option, which I myself often used, is to go with a girl to a flower shop (stall) and ask her to choose the flower that, in her opinion, will be worthy of her or which she simply likes best.
I noticed that girls like it. They begin to choose a flower for themselves with great eagerness and interest. All you have to do is enjoy this magnificent spectacle and pay at the end.
For single flowers, roses are most often suitable. Simply perfect. Don't forget that roses rarely smell. The most fragrant are white roses or specially bred varieties.
Do not forget also that they have thorns and before handing it to the girl, try to get rid of it so that it is convenient for her to hold or warn her.
Carnations are also wonderful flowers, but it is not recommended to give them one at a time. It’s better to have several pieces and preferably multi-colored ones. They look great! The rest are at your discretion.
Don’t forget to casually ask the girl what flowers she likes. Some girls do not perceive all flowers. For example, orchids have a rather thick and heavy smell and not everyone likes it.
Do not rush to show the girl your flowers right away. Try to make it a surprise by presenting them at the very last extravagant moment.
Some especially refined natures do not really approve of “dead” (non-living) flowers.
The best way to convey it to such a dead man is with the words: “This charming flower is not very lucky in life, let him at least spend his last hours in the company of such a charming girl like you.” 
Or, as an option, give flowers in pots. In branded flower shops there are many lovely options in small pots that are convenient to carry and convenient to place at home.
Every time she waters it at home, she will think of you. In any case, it will seem so to you and this is a great way to leave a long and pleasant memory of yourself.
Well, the most important thing. At the first meetings, it is better to give a rose (another flower) alone and without decoration. If it is a rose, then it is good in itself... If you give her 3 or more, then such a gift may be perceived as a claim to the depth of the relationship, and it is not known how she will respond to this..
Let this flower be a simple, sweet and easy element of courtship... And besides, it is not so expensive.
Once again. Don't overuse flowers. And never tear them up in the city. An adequate woman simply will not accept such, and you yourself will not look very attractive.
Give fresh flowers more often and remember... - When giving flowers, not only the mood is important, but also originality!
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