The child chooses his parents before birth. How a child’s soul chooses a mother based on his own experience, spiritual and mental development

The question of how a child’s soul chooses its future parents gives rise to a whole chain of questions:

The soul of our unborn child, who is she?

What do we even know about the soul?

Does she somehow influence her future parents?

Can future parents choose and attract the soul of their unborn child?

Why are physically healthy couples infertile?

The answers to all these questions are found in the Holy Vedic Scriptures.

As the law of Karma states, the present is the consequence of the past and the cause of the future. This means that our future directly depends on how we dispose of the fruits of our past activities. This all applies to souls preparing to be born on Earth. The soul has almost no right to choose; it gets its parents by Karma. The soul incarnates in order to improve itself and gain experience of life in our rough material conditions. Memory is taken away at birth and everything starts from scratch, a little person comes into this world innocent, but with “baggage” received in past lives. All this is necessary so that he can make a free choice in his new life. So, a person goes through life, encountering various difficulties, gaining very important experience and thereby improving. But you need to know one thing - the principle of existence on Earth is love. Love this world, and then it will answer you in kind. It is very good when a person’s parents help him understand this truth.

A soul that performed few good deeds in its past incarnation may be immature (green). Her destiny is an unplanned pregnancy, with which it is still unknown what will be done. It depends on your luck.

If the soul has developed spiritually and accumulated Piety, then it can itself raise the future father and mother.

The soul has 3 energies:

Sat is eternity (immortality);

Chit is knowledge (the soul cannot live without knowledge);

Ananda – happiness (endless). Consciously or unconsciously, we always strive for happiness.

Sat Chit Ananda (Sanskrit).

While the soul is outside the body, it clearly knows that it wants to come to that family where it will be provided with all the conditions for understanding the world and in which it can be happy. If her parents cannot yet provide her with such conditions, then she arranges for them various strength tests. For example, sending meetings where they can show compassion, charity, care; providing the necessary information for study (about raising a child, family relationships, etc.).

The soul will definitely come to the family: in which the spouses accept everything that comes, ask her to come to them now, promise to love and accept the child as he will be, perform austerities (for example, stop poisoning their body with nicotine and alcohol), forgive insults, engage in charity, bring love to everyone, show great care for their parents and the people around them. This will happen even if the doctors have already made their final verdict - infertility.

Can spouses “receive” a more developed, blissful soul than the one that already hovers above them? Yes they can! But only if this married couple has embarked on the path of spiritual development. To do this, it is not enough to just study the scriptures; you need to change your lifestyle. When the spouses feel that the time has come to prepare for conception, they choose a favorable time of year, be sure to recognize all past sins (which must certainly be repented of), and make a sacrifice (for example: repeat the prayer “I wish everyone Happiness!” for 5 or 10 minutes per day, or another of their choice). And then a bright personality, a genius and even a demigod may come to them.

Many parents say that once in deep childhood, when the kids had already learned to speak, but were not yet old enough to consciously formulate and structure their story, they talked about another life. Children, not yet able to call a spade a spade, described another life in their own words as best they could, told amazing details, and in some cases it was even possible to verify this.

It was then that it turned out that thousands of kilometers away, communicating in another language, the child was reproducing the life of another person who was no longer alive. Not only in Indian countries began to think about reincarnation and the eternal life of the soul. We received confirmation that our souls come again and again - to the same clan, to work off joint karmic debts, or to others - trying out their new hypostases in better worlds.

Many mothers have noticed that children seem to partially remember, while they are little, where they came from, how they chose their mother and some small details. You will read stories about the amazing memory of children before birth below. We often attribute these revelations to the fantasies of childhood, but after 4 years (most often), after 7 years, and after 10, you practically can’t hear them anymore - children don’t remember about it. And one more thing: if there is already a huge amount of such evidence all over the world, it sounds almost identical - it means it’s time to accept that the most sincere and not yet able to do anything wrong, the purest creatures on Earth, share such memories with us because that's how it really happened...

This is told by the mother of 3-year-old Kiryusha, from whom I heard all these stories.

“I was cooking lunch in order to somehow distract the child and make the fidget sit quietly for a while, I gave him all the photographs I had stored. And then my son runs up to me with a black and white photograph of me in my youth with my mother (who died shortly before Kiryusha was born) and says: “Mom, I remember you and your green dress here! You missed the bus that day!” My eyes are wide open - I ask: “Son, how do you know? Did dad tell you? - no, he says: “I saw you from above, they showed you to me and said that you would be my mother!” - after that I started asking my friends and acquaintances about this phenomenon and it turned out that not only my child “remembers” how he looked at his mother from somewhere before he was born.

My friend told me a secret

as her daughter recently said: “Mom, grandpa with the lush red beard said hello to you all and said that he was praying for you!” The grandfather with the red beard is this woman’s great-grandfather; she saw him only as a little girl, and the only black and white photo of poor quality was kept in her mother’s albums. They weren’t exactly shown to my daughters; a child at that age isn’t interested in looking at black and white photos when there are bright books. Therefore, after talking with the mother, the women came to the conclusion that the daughter really saw her great-great-grandfather before she was born!

Then, on the playground, I got into a conversation with another young mother. She told how her son described how they were shown uncles and aunts on some screens and they chose their parents.

Another mother of 4-year-old Mashenka said,

as her daughter said: “and when they sent me to your tummy, an angel flew in and said that I would be named after a good aunt who would help me.” The girl did not know that when her mother was pregnant, one day, shortly before giving birth, she slipped and fell, one woman helped her, took her to the hospital and was there until she found out that everything was fine. In honor of that woman, my mother decided to name her daughter Mashenka!

The most amazing story, in my opinion, is about the girl Katenka.

At the age of 2.5 years, she told her parents that 2 more boys had chosen her mom and dad along with her. But one was not allowed to choose these parents, and the second was told to prepare. A year later, the woman had a miscarriage - they lost a boy. And 2 years later they gave birth to a healthy son. They remembered the little daughter’s prediction and somehow shared it with us.

These are the wonderful stories I heard from a friend. For now, my child is small and doesn’t speak, but who knows what he will tell me when he gets a little older! I believe that we are sent to Earth by angels and that children can choose their parents up there!”

We all often wonder why some families have children and others do not. It’s as if there are no visible health problems, but still no children.

There is a hypothesis that children choose their own parents and the time when they will appear in the family. As they say, all the time.
After all, children come into our lives to teach us something. May look at life differently. Or it can show what you really need to value.

This is told by the mother of 3-year-old Kiryusha, from whom I heard all these stories.

“I was cooking lunch in order to somehow distract the child and make the fidget sit quietly for a while, I gave him all the photographs I had stored. And then my son runs up to me with a black and white photograph of me in my youth with my mother (who died shortly before Kiryusha was born) and says: “Mom, I remember you and your green dress here! You missed the bus that day!” My eyes are wide open - I ask: “Son, how do you know? Did dad tell you? - no, he says: “I saw you from above, they showed you to me and said that you would be my mother!” - after that I started asking my friends and acquaintances about this phenomenon and it turned out that not only my child “remembers” how he looked at his mother from somewhere before he was born.

My friend secretly told me how her daughter recently said: “Mom, grandpa with the lush red beard said hello to you all and said that he was praying for you!” The grandfather with the red beard is this woman’s great-grandfather; she saw him only as a little girl, and the only black and white photo of poor quality was kept in her mother’s albums. They weren’t exactly shown to my daughters; a child at that age isn’t interested in looking at black and white photos when there are bright books. Therefore, after talking with the mother, the women came to the conclusion that the daughter really saw her great-great-grandfather before she was born!

Then, on the playground, I got into a conversation with another young mother. She told how her son described how they were shown uncles and aunts on some screens and they chose their parents.

Another mother of 4-year-old Mashenka told how her daughter said: “and when they sent me to your tummy, an angel flew in and said that they would name me in honor of a good aunt who would help me.” The girl did not know that when her mother was pregnant, one day, shortly before giving birth, she slipped and fell, one woman helped her, took her to the hospital and was there until she found out that everything was fine. In honor of that woman, my mother decided to name her daughter Mashenka!

The most amazing story, in my opinion, is about the girl Katenka, at the age of 2.5 years she told her parents that 2 more boys had chosen her mother and father along with her. But one was not allowed to choose these parents, and the second was told to prepare. A year later, the woman had a miscarriage - they lost a boy. And 2 years later they gave birth to a healthy son. They remembered the little daughter’s prediction and somehow shared it with us.

These are the wonderful stories I heard from a friend. For now, my child is small and doesn’t speak, but who knows what he will tell me when he gets a little older! I believe that we are sent to Earth by angels and that children can choose their parents up there!”

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I will be named after a good aunt who will help me.” Girl
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“You can reason as much as you like, trying to penetrate the mystery of human birth, but still not get one centimeter closer to the truth. At the same time, experts are increasingly inclined to think that the period of life of a small creature before birth is equal in significance almost half of a person’s entire life. And the souls of children not only choose their mothers and fathers long before incarnation, but are constantly with them, quite consciously anticipating their future.
Hello mom, it's me!

The question from what moment a person becomes a person seems to have always worried us. Perhaps this is not so important, but it is significant and still significant. It is interesting that in ancient times, future parents prepared in advance for the arrival of a new life into the world. They called on a beautiful soul, bright and pure, like a spring, to incarnate in the body of a child. And they believed that in this case they would certainly have a baby, beautiful in body and soul. It is clear that you can believe in such a theory, but you can not. But then, where do so many mysterious visions come from that hover over expectant mothers, and why does she suddenly feel that she is no longer alone. Researchers have found a very logical answer to this strange question. If a woman saw her unborn child in a dream, it means he is already nearby."

“One day, a woman who had just given birth came to the sage and asked for advice on how to raise a child Smart, Kind, Wise and Omniscient. However, the sage answered her: “Dear... you are 9 months late.” This parable has a very deep meaning and meaning. Throughout our conscious life, we continually come across information about what happens before conception, during pregnancy and childbirth itself in subtler world-structures, and how these events affect our children.

Who walks on four legs in the morning, two in the afternoon, and three in the evening? Oedipus solved the riddle of the Sphinx. And you? Are you able, having lived the morning, day, and perhaps even the evening of your life, to solve at least one riddle of existence, your Path and Karma? Are you able to help another meet the dawn of life and walk along the Path?

THE FINGER OF DESTINY WRITES AND, HAVING WRITING, DISAPPEARS, says Nostradamus, neither your compassion nor your learning can change a word! The Goddesses of Fate weave invisible threads in your life. The sun gives life. The moon takes away... And people on Earth really want to know: what is there, through the looking glass? The soul languishes from vague sensations: what happened before... But memory is taken away at birth, and the human essence begins its life all over again, with a clean slate - innocent, but with the baggage of the heights and depths of past lives. A person who comes to Earth is not given the opportunity to remember the past so that he can make a free choice.

Life “poke him with his nose” like a blind kitten, often without giving a way out, but it is important to remember one thing: the principle of human existence on Earth is Love. Love the Divine World - and life will answer you in kind. “Seek and you will find, ask and it will be given to you...” - after all, “you are all children of God...”.

The principle of existence on Earth is Love. The natural continuation of Love is children, its fruit. Buddha sleeps in the Lotus flower until the time comes for him to open up and go out into the world. This is how a person comes into life. Its bright appearance is greeted at the time of birth. I should have done it sooner..."
“The great transition from life to life is prepared long before birth. Whose parents will your children be? Do they know that from the interaction of two principles in nature a third is born? “Tao gives birth to one - one gives birth to two - two gives birth to three - and three gives birth to everything.” People enter the Stream of Love - Living Birthing Water - because someone’s soul calls them. A person can change a lot in life by making a choice, but marriages and children are predetermined in our destiny. You cannot choose the time of birth, you will feel the power. and the passion of mutual attraction, when the Soul needs to incarnate. You are happy that you have a successful child. And you think that you chose him, gave birth to him and raised him. I hasten to disappoint you: he chose you a long time ago. your and his Karma. He is a free entity. Your job is to try to best suit the role assigned to you."

“Children choose their parents in order to come to Earth to receive the lessons they need on the Path of evolution for further development. I foresee the question: how?! What about abandoned children who have no parents or whose parents are drunkards? What can they teach a child ?! “Put down the surveyor” and look deep into your consciousness: this is a lesson in independence. Fate either punished or rewarded a person - after going through such a difficult school of Life, he will become ten times wiser and stronger than many. In one life he will make an evolutionary leap. ten lives ahead, but he can become embittered with the whole world, become a thief, a drunkard, a murderer and a sadist and slide down to the point of being unrecognizable as a vile insect... The lesson is hard, but this does not mean that our task is to calmly watch as a person “perishes.” His independence lies in the freedom to choose Good and Evil, and the task of those around him is to lend a helping hand. Remember the commandment of Zoroastrianism, the most humane world religion: “A person is obliged to look after his own moral and physical health, but also the health of his fellow men, to help them move forward. paths of evolution."

The law on children says that wherever a lonely child or a puppy ends up without help, the owner of the nearest house must take him in and raise him until he can provide for himself. Otherwise this house will be cursed.

Lessons of independence are lessons of freedom, when we are allowed to do whatever we want, and depending on what you “do,” you will receive a reward or punishment. Lessons of luxury and poverty, glory and humiliation, wandering and even relaxation. A beggar, a king, an artist, a prophet, a judge or a thief - all are found in you by Souls flowing to Earth. And there is not one similar - to each his own. Sometimes the life of an unnoticed righteous person turns out to be more important for evolution than the loud glory and existence of a narcissistic tyrant."

In some Eastern traditions, it is customary to count the age of a child from the moment of his conception. Thus, the baby is born at the age of one. According to the East Asian account, three more months are added to the nine months spent in the womb, during which the soul of the unborn baby hovers near the expectant mother. It has been repeatedly noted that 2-3 months before pregnancy, sensitive women see very realistic dreams. Talking about their premonitions, they claim that they saw in detail the image of the unborn child and spoke with him. Many have noted the feeling of the constant presence of an invisible soul even before the actual conception. In this regard, the question arises: “Does a child choose his parents even before birth?”

The soul of a child before conception from the point of view of reincarnation

According to the Higher Laws, the future incarnation of the soul is predetermined by the actions that a person performs in this life. When the time comes for reincarnation, nothing can be changed. The soul incarnates to fulfill a certain program and move from one level of development to another. She has no choice regarding her future parents. The exception is souls of high spiritual development. They are in no hurry to return to earthly existence, since material wealth attracts them to a lesser extent. Feeling the need for a new incarnation, souls of high spirituality consciously choose where and with whom to be born.

Communication with the soul of the unborn child

The soul visits future parents not only just before conception. Even constant presence nearby does not mean that she is completely ready for embodiment. Sometimes it takes a lot of time to prepare. Sometimes efforts are required from both parents to create conditions in which the child can realize himself and fulfill his karmic tasks. They must not only take care of the material aspect, but also be ready to teach the baby to interact with the outside world and adapt to it. Only after this does the child’s soul begin to communicate with its mother and father through dreams and premonitions.

While the soul is outside the body, it can observe for a long time the behavior of the members of the family in which it will live. She can even arrange tests for her potential parents in which virtues (compassion, the ability to forgive, care, etc.) must be demonstrated. For example, spouses who have embarked on the path of spiritual and moral development have every chance of “receiving” a highly spiritual soul. Adherents of reincarnation are confident that the soul can even come to couples to whom doctors have pronounced a terrible sentence - infertility.

Particular attention is paid to the internal state of the partners. In the theory of reincarnation, it is believed that the fears and doubts of parents delay the birth of a child. A woman who subconsciously denies the possibility of having children drowns out the instinct of motherhood. For all nine months, the child is completely dependent on the mother, including her emotional state. This is why it is so important to communicate mentally and vocally with the fetus. If the soul feels that the baby will be unwanted, will not be welcomed and will not be loved, the threat of miscarriage increases.