A strong Nekrasov woman. Anatoly Nekrasov - Strong Woman, or Lean on my shoulder. Therefore, it is appropriate to ask the question - who benefits from this?

Anatoly Nekrasov

Strong woman, or Lean on my shoulder

© Nekrasov A., text, 2017

© "Tsentrpoligraf", 2017

Introduction

– If I’m so Strong, then why does it hurt so much?

How many women ask themselves this question today!

How much has been done for the sake of this Power, in order to feel, feel equal to - or even HIGHER (what about heels?); At first there was a struggle against corsets and for wearing trousers, against family lawlessness and for the opportunity to work and vote.

Give, give, give, women shouted throughout the 20th century.

We deserve it, we are worthy, we are people too - notice us!

And the Earth is also a woman, the Earth responded, providing everything that was asked. And the right to walk without corsets, and without skirts, and even without clothes at all, exposing the body, if its owner so desires.

And the woman turned out to be noticed, equal, strong. Strong. Very strong!

Against the backdrop of wars and revolutions, financial crises and all political upheavals, the power of a woman grew and strengthened. It would seem that the process is magnificent and deserves respect, but, without a doubt, there are universal, universal zones of conservation of energy and matter. If power accumulates in one place, it inevitably disappears in another.

And the man began to weaken...

And the family began to weaken...

Along with this struggle for her rights in the family and in society, another, different struggle took place within herself, transforming the secret and deep feminine principle. By demanding a masculine sound in society, a woman also changed the deep vibrations in herself.

And I lost the secret...

And I lost my women’s health...

But a strong woman draws logical conclusions:

“I’m pretty, smart, wealthy, but I can’t find my soul mate because there are few worthy ones.”

“I am free and independent from men! I’ve been trying to achieve this for a long time and I don’t want to lose my independence!”

“I decided to live alone because men still don’t meet my needs.”

“I live with a man, but he is weak, and it turns out that I am dragging not only my problems, but also his - why do I need this?”

“All men are assholes, they cheat on everything, and not one is capable of being faithful - why should I break my heart over another asshole?”

“I have to force a man to do what I want; since it exists, I will benefit from it for myself.”

The same situations, the same fears of women who have won many rights in this world are expressed in such different ways. Motivators and propaganda pages of social networks, communities of single mothers and women who have experienced divorce, an army of singles who have chosen business, childfree and same-sex love - all these are happy... women?

Which... are free and joyful?

Women who... are not afraid of anything?

Who... have a light and comfortable soul?

Oh no. Not at all as we would like...

The most important, basic fear is the fear of love.

It's not the fear of being Not beloved, this is not the fear of living in NOT love.

Something much bigger and deeper.

It's fear can't stand it love, because in order to withstand love, you need to let it deeply into yourself, and for this you need to open and expose too much, trust too much, too sincerely become a sensual, sensitive and feeling woman. Thirsty for affection and support, in need of her soul mate - and at the same time as if open to attack. And it seems to the woman that if this openness exists, it means there may be a blow.

They can hurt, they can humiliate, they can touch the living, the inner, the very, very...

And a strong woman cannot afford it. A strong woman puts on armor and picks up a sword. And now the goddess Athena is ready! Aphrodite turned into Athena...

And, having left her essence, gone from feminine truth into strength, she cannot understand that a blow can only come when there is an obstacle, resistance, a challenge within herself. Expecting a blow, defending itself from it, it creates the conditions for its appearance.

And strength is such a challenge. Armor and sword are a challenge. And a male warrior appears to fight her and win.

Or a page. Or henpecked. Or a gigolo giving her only his dick.

A woman who has gone through all the turns of hell, who has conquered the impossible for the right to stand on an equal footing with a man - but thereby not ascended to the very top, but, on the contrary, descended from the pedestal on which she was initially elevated, a woman on whose tender hands and shoulders such a thing is entrusted a lot... She cannot afford true exposure, the true nakedness of her essence. Beneath the armor of power in which she was forced to shackle herself, her inner self, inner world overly vulnerable, sensitive. He needs to be hidden... and hides, sometimes for the rest of his life, and disappears unknown. And the armor-corset - solid, almost iron - over time fills the entire void, leaving nothing but the fulfillment of everyday duties, the struggle more often for survival and less often for the well-being of the family and each of the household members, the struggle in business, the struggle for independence - and that’s all In the end, for some reason, this does not bring pleasure, even if it brings material well-being, status, and external prosperity.

Anatoly Nekrasov

Strong Woman, or Lean on my shoulder

© Nekrasov A., text, 2017

© "Tsentrpoligraf", 2017

Introduction

– If I’m so Strong, then why does it hurt so much?

How many women ask themselves this question today!

How much has been done for the sake of this Power, in order to feel, feel equal to - or even HIGHER (what about heels?); At first there was a struggle against corsets and for wearing trousers, against family lawlessness and for the opportunity to work and vote.

Give, give, give, women shouted throughout the 20th century.

We deserve it, we are worthy, we are people too - notice us!

And the Earth is also a woman, the Earth responded, providing everything that was asked. And the right to walk without corsets, and without skirts, and even without clothes at all, exposing the body, if its owner so desires.

And the woman turned out to be noticed, equal, strong. Strong. Very strong!

Against the backdrop of wars and revolutions, financial crises and all political upheavals, the power of a woman grew and strengthened. It would seem that the process is magnificent and deserves respect, but, without a doubt, there are universal, universal zones of conservation of energy and matter. If power accumulates in one place, it inevitably disappears in another.

And the man began to weaken...

And the family began to weaken...

Along with this struggle for her rights in the family and in society, another, different struggle took place within herself, transforming the secret and deep feminine principle. By demanding a masculine sound in society, a woman also changed the deep vibrations in herself.

And I lost the secret...

And I lost my women’s health...

But a strong woman draws logical conclusions:

“I’m pretty, smart, wealthy, but I can’t find my soul mate because there are few worthy ones.”

“I am free and independent from men! I’ve been trying to achieve this for a long time and I don’t want to lose my independence!”

“I decided to live alone because men still don’t meet my needs.”

“I live with a man, but he is weak, and it turns out that I am dragging not only my problems, but also his - why do I need this?”

“All men are assholes, they cheat on everything, and not one is capable of being faithful - why should I break my heart over another asshole?”

“I have to force a man to do what I want; since it exists, I will benefit from it for myself.”

The same situations, the same fears of women who have won many rights in this world are expressed in such different ways. Motivators and propaganda pages of social networks, communities of single mothers and women who have experienced divorce, an army of singles who have chosen business, childfree and same-sex love - all these are happy... women?

Which... are free and joyful?

Women who... are not afraid of anything?

Who... have a light and comfortable soul?

Oh no. Not at all as we would like...

The most important, basic fear is the fear of love.

It's not the fear of being Not beloved, this is not the fear of living in NOT love.

Something much bigger and deeper.

It's fear can't stand it love, because in order to withstand love, you need to let it deeply into yourself, and for this you need to open and expose too much, trust too much, too sincerely become a sensual, sensitive and feeling woman. Thirsty for affection and support, in need of her soul mate - and at the same time as if open to attack. And it seems to the woman that if this openness exists, it means there may be a blow.

They can hurt, they can humiliate, they can touch the living, the inner, the very, very...

And a strong woman cannot afford it. A strong woman puts on armor and picks up a sword. And now the goddess Athena is ready! Aphrodite turned into Athena...

And, having left her essence, gone from feminine truth into strength, she cannot understand that a blow can only come when there is an obstacle, resistance, a challenge within herself. Expecting a blow, defending itself from it, it creates the conditions for its appearance.

And strength is such a challenge. Armor and sword are a challenge. And a male warrior appears to fight her and win.

Or a page. Or henpecked. Or a gigolo giving her only his dick.

A woman who has gone through all the turns of hell, who has conquered the impossible for the right to stand on an equal footing with a man - but thereby not ascended to the very top, but, on the contrary, descended from the pedestal on which she was initially elevated, a woman on whose tender hands and shoulders such a thing is entrusted a lot... She cannot afford true exposure, the true nakedness of her essence. Under the armor of power in which she was forced to shackle herself, her inner component, her inner world, is overly vulnerable and sensitive. He needs to be hidden... and hides, sometimes for the rest of his life, and disappears unknown. And the armor-corset - solid, almost iron - over time fills the entire void, leaving nothing but the fulfillment of everyday duties, the struggle more often for survival and less often for the well-being of the family and each of the household members, the struggle in business, the struggle for independence - and that’s all In the end, for some reason, this does not bring pleasure, even if it brings material well-being, status, and external prosperity.

And even the freedom for which she has come such a difficult way no longer pleases, because there is a feeling that it is somehow different, artificial.

And the question arises - what am I living for?

A woman wonders why she has everything - but she still remains unhappy.

And he doesn’t find an answer to this question, habitually blaming someone who happened nearby.

My man.

He is not here? And it wasn't?

Then you can blame his absence.

Or more parents.

And it can be even bigger - a country!

“If only I could shift part of my load onto someone,” thinks a strong woman, truly strong; and he’s lucky, lucky, lucky, forgetting that not a single horse has yet become the chairman of the collective farm - although they carry the burden more than anyone else.

So what did the won rights give? Oh, they gave a lot! But in a fight, the winner always loses, too, and I had to pay for my main right - to be a woman. True, unique, only, beloved, loving and truly happy...

Let us look in your strength for the threads of this true femininity, which, like in the labyrinth of the Minotaur, the threads of Ariadne, will be able to bring to the light of the only religion, the only truth and formative force that overcomes and transforms everything - all of us, the world, and the essence of any phenomenon – to all-creating love that relieves pain.

I know what it will be like to be transformed by love, transformed by truth. A strong woman will remain strong, since it is impossible to rewind the turns of evolution and undo the transformations that she so sought and went through. Our path leads only forward, and therefore women who have now become strong must again discover within themselves the springs and brightest streams of the true essence. They will not lose anything, they will not give anything in return, not even strength! They will only gain by opening up and accepting their main right - to be a woman!

And the strength of a strong woman should help her complement herself, reveal these truly feminine qualities in herself. The force took the woman away from femininity - now let it lead her back to her essence!

Do you have to give up your position if you are a businesswoman, trousers, open clothes and short haircuts? From modern lifestyle and behavior?

No, we are not talking about the external world in which we live; Our task is to bring about true evolution with a simple and clear goal. The evolution of true femininity.

Our task is to learn to live a full, joyful life, in harmony and painlessness, in happiness - and not someday, but right now, when you comprehend these lines, realize the guiding power of this book. Accept it with your heart!

The current times are such that individual evolution allows us to shift the boundaries of time and space. The era of change has come, the era of spirituality and the dominance of personal potential; and therefore a strong woman can take another half step and turn into a harmonious woman, finding happiness and throwing away the everyday pain that is ingrained into the skin.

The pain of each and every one; the pain of a strong woman, once again coming up with complex words that allow her to successfully escape from a changed reality - childfree, singleton, kidalt, swing, gay, escapism, dyke and much more.

We can say that the pain is in not merging with another soul, in not finding a soul mate; or it is possible - that the pain is in the initial denial of its original essence, in the cessation of hope, the murder of hope, which stops smoldering and dies. The pain is in refusing to seek a merger, in giving up the right somewhere and sometime, even if not here and not now, to agree with meekness, with service, with openness and true femininity, which has much more strength and power, directly projected by the Earth than in the entire male community.

Don't be afraid of the word meekness, after all, it contains the deepest dignity, which most women do not have, even if they occupy very high positions.

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Anatoly Nekrasov
Strong Woman, or Lean on my shoulder

© Nekrasov A., text, 2017

© "Tsentrpoligraf", 2017

Introduction

– If I’m so Strong, then why does it hurt so much?

How many women ask themselves this question today!

How much has been done for the sake of this Power, in order to feel, feel equal to - or even HIGHER (what about heels?); At first there was a struggle against corsets and for wearing trousers, against family lawlessness and for the opportunity to work and vote.

Give, give, give, women shouted throughout the 20th century.

We deserve it, we are worthy, we are people too - notice us!

And the Earth is also a woman, the Earth responded, providing everything that was asked. And the right to walk without corsets, and without skirts, and even without clothes at all, exposing the body, if its owner so desires.

And the woman turned out to be noticed, equal, strong. Strong. Very strong!

Against the backdrop of wars and revolutions, financial crises and all political upheavals, the power of a woman grew and strengthened. It would seem that the process is magnificent and deserves respect, but, without a doubt, there are universal, universal zones of conservation of energy and matter. If power accumulates in one place, it inevitably disappears in another.

And the man began to weaken...

And the family began to weaken...

Along with this struggle for her rights in the family and in society, another, different struggle took place within herself, transforming the secret and deep feminine principle. By demanding a masculine sound in society, a woman also changed the deep vibrations in herself.

And I lost the secret...

And I lost my women’s health...

But a strong woman draws logical conclusions:

“I’m pretty, smart, wealthy, but I can’t find my soul mate because there are few worthy ones.”

“I am free and independent from men! I’ve been trying to achieve this for a long time and I don’t want to lose my independence!”

“I decided to live alone because men still don’t meet my needs.”

“I live with a man, but he is weak, and it turns out that I am dragging not only my problems, but also his - why do I need this?”

“All men are assholes, they cheat on everything, and not one is capable of being faithful - why should I break my heart over another asshole?”

“I have to force a man to do what I want; since it exists, I will benefit from it for myself.”

The same situations, the same fears of women who have won many rights in this world are expressed in such different ways. Motivators and propaganda pages of social networks, communities of single mothers and women who have experienced divorce, an army of singles who have chosen business, childfree and same-sex love - all these are happy... women?

Which... are free and joyful?

Women who... are not afraid of anything?

Who... have a light and comfortable soul?

Oh no. Not at all as we would like...

The most important, basic fear is the fear of love.

It's not the fear of being Not beloved, this is not the fear of living in NOT love.

Something much bigger and deeper.

It's fear can't stand it love, because in order to withstand love, you need to let it deeply into yourself, and for this you need to open and expose too much, trust too much, too sincerely become a sensual, sensitive and feeling woman. Thirsty for affection and support, in need of her soul mate - and at the same time as if open to attack. And it seems to the woman that if this openness exists, it means there may be a blow.

They can hurt, they can humiliate, they can touch the living, the inner, the very, very...

And a strong woman cannot afford it. A strong woman puts on armor and picks up a sword. And now the goddess Athena is ready! Aphrodite turned into Athena...

And, having left her essence, gone from feminine truth into strength, she cannot understand that a blow can only come when there is an obstacle, resistance, a challenge within herself. Expecting a blow, defending itself from it, it creates the conditions for its appearance.

And strength is such a challenge. Armor and sword are a challenge. And a male warrior appears to fight her and win.

Or a page. Or henpecked. Or a gigolo giving her only his dick.

A woman who has gone through all the turns of hell, who has conquered the impossible for the right to stand on an equal footing with a man - but thereby not ascended to the very top, but, on the contrary, descended from the pedestal on which she was initially elevated, a woman on whose tender hands and shoulders such a thing is entrusted a lot... She cannot afford true exposure, the true nakedness of her essence. Under the armor of power in which she was forced to shackle herself, her inner component, her inner world, is overly vulnerable and sensitive. He needs to be hidden... and hides, sometimes for the rest of his life, and disappears unknown. And the armor-corset - solid, almost iron - over time fills the entire void, leaving nothing but the fulfillment of everyday duties, the struggle more often for survival and less often for the well-being of the family and each of the household members, the struggle in business, the struggle for independence - and that’s all In the end, for some reason, this does not bring pleasure, even if it brings material well-being, status, and external prosperity.

And even the freedom for which she has come such a difficult way no longer pleases, because there is a feeling that it is somehow different, artificial.

And the question arises - what am I living for?

A woman wonders why she has everything - but she still remains unhappy.

And he doesn’t find an answer to this question, habitually blaming someone who happened nearby.

My man.

He is not here? And it wasn't?

Then you can blame his absence.

Or more parents.

And it can be even bigger - a country!

“If only I could shift part of my load onto someone,” thinks a strong woman, truly strong; and he’s lucky, lucky, lucky, forgetting that not a single horse has yet become the chairman of the collective farm - although they carry the burden more than anyone else.

So what did the won rights give? Oh, they gave a lot! But in a fight, the winner always loses, too, and I had to pay for my main right - to be a woman. True, unique, only, beloved, loving and truly happy...

Let us look in your strength for the threads of this true femininity, which, like in the labyrinth of the Minotaur, the threads of Ariadne, will be able to bring to the light of the only religion, the only truth and formative force that overcomes and transforms everything - all of us, the world, and the essence of any phenomenon – to all-creating love that relieves pain.

I know what it will be like to be transformed by love, transformed by truth. A strong woman will remain strong, since it is impossible to rewind the turns of evolution and undo the transformations that she so sought and went through. Our path leads only forward, and therefore women who have now become strong must again discover within themselves the springs and brightest streams of the true essence. They will not lose anything, they will not give anything in return, not even strength! They will only gain by opening up and accepting their main right - to be a woman!

And the strength of a strong woman should help her complement herself, reveal these truly feminine qualities in herself. The force took the woman away from femininity - now let it lead her back to her essence!

Should you give up your position if you are a businesswoman, trousers, open clothes and short haircuts? From modern lifestyle and behavior?

No, we are not talking about the external world in which we live; Our task is to bring about true evolution with a simple and clear goal. The evolution of true femininity.

Our task is to learn to live a full, joyful life, in harmony and painlessness, in happiness - and not someday, but right now, when you comprehend these lines, realize the guiding power of this book. Accept it with your heart!

The current times are such that individual evolution allows us to shift the boundaries of time and space. The era of change has come, the era of spirituality and the dominance of personal potential; and therefore a strong woman can take another half step and turn into a harmonious woman, finding happiness and throwing away the everyday pain that is ingrained into the skin.

The pain of each and every one; the pain of a strong woman, once again coming up with complex words that allow her to successfully escape from a changed reality - childfree, singleton, kidalt, swing, gay, escapism, dyke and much more.

We can say that the pain is in not merging with another soul, in not finding a soul mate; or it is possible - that the pain is in the initial denial of its original essence, in the cessation of hope, the murder of hope, which stops smoldering and dies. The pain is in refusing to seek a merger, in giving up the right somewhere and sometime, even if not here and not now, to agree with meekness, with service, with openness and true femininity, which has much more strength and power, directly projected by the Earth than in the entire male community.

Don't be afraid of the word meekness, after all, it contains the deepest dignity, which most women do not have, even if they occupy very high positions.

Don't be afraid of the word service - it carries a global mission that is only accessible to a strong woman.

Don't be afraid of the word openness – only openness does not create an obstacle and does not cause struggle. Openness is the best defense - there is nothing stronger than it! Tested by my own life for a quarter of a century.

A woman’s pain is projected into the pain of the whole world, into the pain of men, into the pain of children and all subsequent generations, into the pain of the great woman – the Earth. Such is the magnitude of a woman’s pain. Hence her enormous responsibility to life... Hence her greatest task - to become happy. Definitely! Through fears and difficulties, accept the energy of happiness, spread it, just as the aroma of her perfume spreads. And even further - now you can share happiness at a distance using the telephone and the Internet... Everything is in the service of a woman - as long as there is something to share.

It's time to take these half steps to your essence. Just half a step! You have already taken half a step - you have become strong! Now you are the one who solves all issues in the family, you, without whom nothing happens on this planet, you who decided to remain independent, wealthy and childless, at the same time confused in the suffocating categories of loneliness, independence and freedom and unhappy to tears despite all your wealth; you, who can literally do anything - you will be freed from pain and gain wings. A quantum leap occurs in one brief moment, in one moment, in a breath of solar wind; allow yourself happiness.

Just let it.

In fact, everything is not simple, but very simple! And this is the genius of life. This is where the famous slogan was born: if you want to be happy, be happy! That's all. I entered this state, and it is wonderful! It is simply a state that is achieved by this half step. And it’s really possible for everyone to do it.

Any age!

We cannot, we have no right to express something so important through denial. We have a responsibility to find the positive.

What is the absence of pain?

Pain is a discomfort that every day digs into the soul like a poisonous thorn, sooner or later spreading to the body. At first, it may not be felt, overlaid by the euphoria of a high-quality education, career growth, growing financial wealth, power over people, and new opportunities. But then the pain will come, it will definitely catch up with even the fastest... horse. We must be honest and anticipate it. Anticipate pain. Recognize its origin.

Then you can avoid it.

Living without pain means waking up without pain, dancing joyfully all day through your daily activities, and falling asleep without pain, fully aware of your fulfillment.

Live happy!

The pain comes from what was suppressed in you, but did not have a chance to be realized. Unexperienced feelings turn into metastases that torment you from the inside. Metastases are your internal prohibitions on the path to happiness. They are not needed - leave them in the past.

Unrealized and unaccepted, untested and unrealized dreams are poisoned arrows.

Let's get rid of them first.

And then we will heal the wounds.

It will be simple, because your healed essence will itself rush along the path for which you were originally created. Because following the path of female happiness is a natural state.

And what is natural develops easily and simply - the Sun, air and water!

Likewise, women's happiness is simple and easy.

Love yourself.

Love men.

Love the world.

This is not a life-long path, not a path of redemption and painful re-education of oneself - this is a quantum leap, throwing up a fountain of joy. You will recognize it by how everything changes within you and around you.

So, my strong, strong woman, lean your head on my shoulder, lean on me. You once had to find support, and now cry and read, finding true freedom, true fulfillment and joy, true strength with these lines.

Better yet, don’t cry! Immediately feel the prospect of a happy life, feed yourself with the energy of joy from the future and bring it to today. After all, you can do anything!

A woman can do anything!!!

What a woman wants, God wants!

True. If she is a woman...

Let's remember when and where you were more inclined to open up, bare yourself, bare both soul and body. Let the seagulls scream and the warm salty sea splash at your feet; your shoulders will be kissed by the hot sun, and your body will be supported by a comfortable striped lounge chair.

We will not work on our present and future as if we were being paid for it. Stop working on happiness! Stop putting incredible effort into this, as if happiness is something unnatural and forcefully achieved.

After all, in fact, it is already in you...

Originally laid down.

We will relax at the resort and the solutions will come to us. As the salt of sea water and the warmth of the sun come naturally, kissing the Earth with its rays every day, touching its eyelids, soft lips - it’s time to get up, it’s time for someone else to get up. Other. True.

Are you ready?

And you are not alone!

Then I will turn this page for you... and you will plunge into the world of Questions, Solutions and Insights, leading you to Harmony, Happiness and Joy.

It's time to live happily on a happy planet!

This is exactly what you came for.

Chapter 1. Montenegro

Man and man, woman and woman

...The master got out at the Podgorica airport and breathed in the fresh, clean air. This country was especially close to him - with its mysticism, deep history, closely connected with Russia, incredible landscapes, ancient towns clinging to the Adriatic, simple, healthy food... Its name alone attracts, creates some kind of mystery - Montenegro... Thoughts fly far away, beyond the seas and oceans, somewhere beyond the equator to Africa or South America... Not everyone knows where the country with such a beautiful name is located, but it is very close - just a little over two hours’ flight from Moscow, almost like to Sochi. And when you say: “So this is Montenegro,” then everyone says: “Ah!” Because almost everyone in Russia knows Montenegro, and for a very long time, since tsarist times.

The master came here to write a book. This is the one you just picked up. In both the classical and modern sense, such a trip is a sabbatical. Think, put in your head the endless human stories that have passed through the consciousness and soul of the Master, and tell those who are unable to find the help and support of a specialist in time, everything that will help them live in happiness.

A sabbatical is not a time for passive rest, it is work that allows you to create a new quality based on the material learned in the process of life lessons. Return to the Universe of the good creative Power that She bestowed on the Master.

The task was specific, completely real; poignant and incredibly relevant. Alluring, like the smell of musk and mystery, sweet, like kisses on the shore.

Woman and Strength. How to unite them in the original, predestined harmony, how to give Joy to a Strong Woman, how to return her to a state of balance and everyday Happiness, which short-sighted people sometimes call “simple”?

“Simple Women's Happiness”...

How to achieve it?

Why is it so difficult today?

Happiness has many faces, which is why most people consider it unpredictable. It is comprehended through hundreds of channels, ways of interconnection with the outside world. There is Happiness FOR - when at the center of this process is not the person himself, his pure “I”, but someone nearby. There is Happiness OT - when liberation from some burden in life allows you to grow wings. And sometimes there is simply Happiness - a feeling of fullness of life and comfort in all its areas. Happiness is divided into categories and by age, it has been studied by psychologists, doctors, esotericists, priests, philosophers, writers, sociologists... But it still remains unattainable for many and accidental for almost everyone.

The master knew a lot about happiness. He studied almost everything that was written before him, studied in real life its various manifestations among different peoples, wrote a dissertation on Happiness, and most importantly, he himself was Deeply Happy. This is what gave him a special status - they called him: “Master of a Happy Life”! And he took it upon himself to share happiness. As it turned out, this is very difficult work. And first of all, because for this you need to be especially happy! And this is not easy these days. And at all times, people have noted that happiness does not come to everyone. That is why there are so few truly happy people and, of course, books.

Meeting a truly Happy Book is a great success.

Recently, the issue of happiness has become so important that even the UN General Assembly adopted a resolution according to which happiness from a private category of an individual citizen becomes a statistical indicator of a country's development. The resolution calls on other countries to develop their own methods for measuring happiness and submit them to the UN. The adopted resolution does not legally oblige people to do this, but for now only recommends taking a closer look at understanding the level and fullness of happiness of their citizens.

The UN has added an addition to the list of factors that allow us to judge the development of countries. It included an optional (it turns out – optional! How can that be, optional?), but such an important criterion – “level of happiness”. The Master knew that this wonderful resolution was not born out of nowhere, and not only from the great desire of billions of earthlings to be happy, but also from the real experience of an entire country - the kingdom of Bhutan, which has long had a state program to increase Happiness, and has a well-established system of Happy indicators. Life, the Ministry of Happiness is actively working. While studying the topic of Happiness, the Master visited there too...

He did a lot to ensure that this resolution appeared and two beautiful holidays were born: World Beauty Day (September 9) and World Happiness Day, which was proposed to be celebrated on the eve of the spring equinox, March 20.

The master wants to see his country, Russia, happy. And he understands that she can only become happy when Women are Happy. They are the key! And today, for the most part, they suffer and carry pain within themselves and translate it into life. Yes, it’s not an easy task... And this creative trip, writing a new book about the path to Women’s Happiness, is another step in solving this problem.

His thoughts about Happiness flew as easily as the liner. They were interrupted only a few times - for lunch and from time to time by the cry of a child sitting in the back row, three or four.

“It’s good that he’s not nearby, the baby is too restless,” thought the Master. “His parents probably have serious problems.” Otherwise he would have behaved differently. Children are wonderful mirrors of their parents; they show everything that parents don’t notice or want to hide from others.”

And this child also had a direct relationship with Happiness - he is a litmus test that truly reflects the amount of Happiness in the family.

The happier the parents, the more harmonious and happier the child.

Happiness is sometimes perceived as a gift, and it’s true - there are certain bright natures for whom living in happiness, in everyday comfort, is the norm and a given from birth. Whether they become saints and prophets, whether they work all their lives in a library, leaving this world alone for imaginary worlds, whether they live in a family - people flock to them as a source of unique light. All those who do not have this gift and who...

They want to borrow it.

Must learn it.

This phrase itself is paradoxical. Who do they owe it to? How is this happiness through “should”?! The concept of debt implies the presence of both a debtor and a creditor. And studying is by default a process that is not associated with anything pleasant, it is effort, it is exams, it is learning the basics. Where does this “should” come from? And why is everything in a person opposed to everyone? duty?

Every person is Free and Strong Initially. This is embedded deep in his essence. But a person has one part of him, which very often greatly influences life, leads away from the true path, and then, in order to return to his essence, this “should”, “must” manifests itself. You probably guessed it - this part is called the Head.

Oh that head...

And on the path to happiness, it is the head that most often becomes an obstacle. At birth, everyone receives an account in the Bank of Happiness, a certain number of happy minutes, happy days, happy months and happy years. And believe it or not, there are many of these happy years...

A lot - hundreds of years!

Where does this happiness-time go?

Carefree children's spending happiness is not an expense. There the child loves unconditionally, and this is the most important condition for happiness. But a moment comes - everyone has their own - and the counter turns on, which can count in one direction or the other. For some, happiness increases - through self-care, favorite activities, positive impressions, communication with interesting people, doing good deeds, giving happiness to others. Giving happiness is a must! This is another most important condition. Only then does it grow the most. Therefore, no one can maintain happiness - if you do not develop and increase it, then sooner or later it will definitely turn into a swamp of Misfortune. Therefore, for the majority, happiness fades, the account is spent, becomes covered with the mold of despondency, pessimism, laziness and lies, they begin to walk in circles, declare problems and weaknesses, and then the account in the Bank of Happiness can steadily decrease and disappear completely.

There are so many “bankrupts of happiness” around...

There are so many “masters of unhappy life” around...

Craftswoman! After all, we are talking about a woman...

Indeed, many people simply masterfully create their original, unhappy lives. Want an example?

Please!

- Studies. Professional.

You say: “How?! After all, teaching is Light!

Teaching is different. And for a woman this line is especially thin. Answer yourself honestly – did your diploma help you become truly happy? Do you know at least one person to whom a diploma brought happiness? Simple female happiness. If you know, send it to me. I have been looking for such a woman for many years, and still have not found...

The more a woman studies, goes deeper into a profession, masters another, a third, the more Strength she gains.

Now do you understand how many masters of unhappy life there are in life?

Now do you understand where the center of an unhappy life lives?

A little higher we decided - in the Head!

Oh, that head...

The head comes forward, but love retreats...

This is the moment of transition from happiness to unhappiness - when the Head walks through life ahead of the Heart.

And what? Hopelessness?

Not at all!

The world loves a person, and it is so arranged that every bankrupt can become happy again!

And how good it is that this resource can be restored at any time! True, you need to work for this. And in this case, you can also use the power of the words “must”, “must”. After all, a lot of work was spent to become unhappy, and now the reverse process is needed. The head led you into the zone of misfortune, now let the Head lead you out of there.

We must remember that everyone originally came to Earth to be Happy. Without any buts! A person is obliged to cultivate Happiness in himself from those roots that inevitably remain in every destiny and in every consciousness. And here the Head, which at some point led away from Happiness, let it work...

Learn to be Happy.

Happy.

If it didn’t work out on a whim, from birth, as if taking off on wings... then you need to go through the School of Happiness and become professionals, but this time Happiness! The Master created such a School of Happiness, and this is one of his centers of joy!

And how much joy those who went through this School of Happiness experienced!

The Master smiled, remembering one of the exams at his School. He came up with this, probably for the first time in the world, after finishing the exam for a happy life. Where should he be if not at the School of Happiness?! And so a woman from the outback came to take an exam on the quality of her life. She enters the hall where the examination committee sits... in a beautiful demi-season coat. Unexpectedly for late spring, and even during an exam. She paraded in front of the commission and left... The examiners looked at each other, not understanding anything. A minute later she comes in wearing an even more beautiful coat! I walked and came out again! Then she appeared in a dress and said:

- This is my exam. “And then he explains: “I went for a walk along Tverskaya and went into a boutique.” If I can’t buy it, then at least try it on, feel it, please myself. I tried on one coat and it fits great! The second one is also very good! I spin in front of the mirror, enjoying myself... A man walks through the hall, I ask him - which coat suits me best? He stopped, looked at me one way, then another and said: “Both are good!” I give them to you." He takes them to the cashier, paid a lot of money, said goodbye and left. He didn’t even ask for his name, phone number, or leave his coordinates...

I have passed the exam? – asked a graduate of the School of Happiness.

The master was distracted from his thoughts, which flew with him along with the plane.

There was no luggage, and he immediately went out of the airport to the square. He stood in light leather shoes, light trousers and a matching shirt, with a small travel bag and a computer case. A light wind moved his hair, caressed his cheeks, set him in the right mood - however, the Master did not require long-term tuning. He knew what, for whom and how exactly he would write, even when he boarded the plane and even much earlier. In flight, thoughts flew freely, forming into clouds-heads, clouds-images.

The final phase of writing the book has arrived. The preparatory part was long, lived and thought out deeply and for a long time, with all my mind and heart. We listened to a lot of stories of Strong women in consultations, in various life situations... There was plenty of material! And now it was necessary to disconnect from everything, collect it into a single picture and put it into a finished text. This is exactly how the Master’s books were born - for a long time, sometimes years, collecting material, and then deep concentration and quick, light work of his fingers, putting the experience into words. It had always been this way, and now he also planned to follow the familiar path...

The letters were already ready to pour onto the laptop monitor, coming to life. But a true creator, researcher and reformer of the world, truly connected with the living Earth, never leaves out of the focus of his attention what is happening around him. This is already professional - to see everything, analyze, dive into the very depths and... enjoy it!

Other people were also waiting for the bus, which was supposed to take a group of Russian tourists from the airport to a small luxury apart-hotel on the Adriatic coast. The Master's gaze fell on the family of three. Yes, yes, for a family. And exactly - out of three.

The head of the family?.. apparently, Grandma, a plump lady of short stature, dressed and made up a little brighter than would be appropriate in the warm resort sun. In the pursed lips and the arrow-wrinkles next to them, in the skeptical crease of the eyebrow, there was something that immediately told the Master that in front of him was a Teacher, with no less than forty years of experience. Pedagogy as a lifelong job leaves an imprint on the face, posture, psyche and perception of the world. And it already became clear that there was no happiness in this family. It is known that among teachers, psychologists and doctors the largest percentage of Masters of Unhappy Life.

The younger woman is clearly the Mother. Fit, pretty, in clothes that reveal her lower back - a tight top and slightly low-cut jeans, with a large smartphone in her hands. The mother was not young, she was collected, and her phone, jewelry, perhaps too expensive to sparkle like diamonds at the airport, her pose and figure - all this said “Business and Fitness.” In the gaze of “Self-Made” women, a special familiar devilry appears in relation to this world - well, what haven’t I bought yet? And this devilry, the Master knew, as a rule, hides midnight tears and incredible confusion in front of everything that cannot be measured in money and counted. Well, the open strip of skin screamed loudly about bodily hunger.

The third member of the family was...

It was the same child who burst into the Master’s thoughts with his scream on the plane. He recognized him by his voice. It was the Son of this Family. A boy of five or six years old. He did not remain quiet for a second - he picked his nose (Grandmother pulled him back), asked for drinks and ice cream (here and now there was nowhere to get it, but a bottle of stored water and a chocolate bar immediately appeared from his mother’s bag), smeared himself with chocolate that had melted on the warmer (the Master saw that the baby deliberately, and not at all “accidentally,” ran his sweet brown fingers over the expensive T-shirt), made a scary face at the older girl who caught his eye. She answered him “fool” in Russian, and Grandmother immediately, confirming her profession, reprimanded someone else’s child, as she had become accustomed to do for forty years. The girl’s mother, very young, was speechless, not knowing what to do - protect her daughter or, succumbing to the magic of pedagogical diction, join the disciplinarian, and in the end said nothing...

Near this Family there were two huge multi-liter suitcases with belongings, but Grandma was also with a bag, and Mom was with a bag and a case, and even the Son was with a small backpack.

The master smiled.

He didn’t yet know exactly why, for what, but he felt that his gaze did not fall on this trio by chance, that there was no coincidence in this meeting and in the fact that they were going to the same place. What has the World prepared for him? This is what a Master is all about, to be ready always and for anything...

He thought that the book could take on new sides - and a new sound.

The bus took people, and the Master listened to the endless complaints of Grandmother and Mom. They had to sit in different rows, and the Son wanted to sit on one or the other. They changed his clothes - and he got dirty again, he asked for a drink, for his hands, to sleep and to go to the toilet. Grandmother and Mother meekly did everything that the child demanded, trying to indulge every whim, and were ready for much - even insulting the bus driver because the bus was not equipped with a toilet.

The master easily moved his long dry finger over the tablet monitor (he had a convenient program installed that allowed him to write on the move) and smiled at something.

– If I’m so Strong, then why does it hurt so much?

How many women ask themselves this question today!

How much has been done for the sake of this Power, in order to feel, feel equal to - or even HIGHER (what about heels?); At first there was a struggle against corsets and for wearing trousers, against family lawlessness and for the opportunity to work and vote.

Give, give, give, women shouted throughout the 20th century.

We deserve it, we are worthy, we are people too - notice us!

And the Earth is also a woman, the Earth responded, providing everything that was asked. And the right to walk without corsets, and without skirts, and even without clothes at all, exposing the body, if its owner so desires.

And the woman turned out to be noticed, equal, strong. Strong. Very strong!

Against the backdrop of wars and revolutions, financial crises and all political upheavals, the power of a woman grew and strengthened. It would seem that the process is magnificent and deserves respect, but, without a doubt, there are universal, universal zones of conservation of energy and matter. If power accumulates in one place, it inevitably disappears in another.

And the man began to weaken...

And the family began to weaken...

Along with this struggle for her rights in the family and in society, another, different struggle took place within herself, transforming the secret and deep feminine principle. By demanding a masculine sound in society, a woman also changed the deep vibrations in herself.

And I lost the secret...

And I lost my women’s health...

But a strong woman draws logical conclusions:

“I’m pretty, smart, wealthy, but I can’t find my soul mate because there are few worthy ones.”

“I am free and independent from men! I’ve been trying to achieve this for a long time and I don’t want to lose my independence!”

“I decided to live alone because men still don’t meet my needs.”

“I live with a man, but he is weak, and it turns out that I am dragging not only my problems, but also his - why do I need this?”

“All men are assholes, they cheat on everything, and not one is capable of being faithful - why should I break my heart over another asshole?”

“I have to force a man to do what I want; since it exists, I will benefit from it for myself.”

The same situations, the same fears of women who have won many rights in this world are expressed in such different ways. Motivators and propaganda pages of social networks, communities of single mothers and women who have experienced divorce, an army of singles who have chosen business, childfree and same-sex love - all these are happy... women?

Which... are free and joyful?

Women who... are not afraid of anything?

Who... have a light and comfortable soul?

Oh no. Not at all as we would like...

The most important, basic fear is the fear of love.

It's not the fear of being Not beloved, this is not the fear of living in NOT love.

Something much bigger and deeper.

It's fear can't stand it love, because in order to withstand love, you need to let it deeply into yourself, and for this you need to open and expose too much, trust too much, too sincerely become a sensual, sensitive and feeling woman. Thirsty for affection and support, in need of her soul mate - and at the same time as if open to attack. And it seems to the woman that if this openness exists, it means there may be a blow.

They can hurt, they can humiliate, they can touch the living, the inner, the very, very...

And a strong woman cannot afford it. A strong woman puts on armor and picks up a sword. And now the goddess Athena is ready! Aphrodite turned into Athena...

And, having left her essence, gone from feminine truth into strength, she cannot understand that a blow can only come when there is an obstacle, resistance, a challenge within herself. Expecting a blow, defending itself from it, it creates the conditions for its appearance.

And strength is such a challenge. Armor and sword are a challenge. And a male warrior appears to fight her and win.

Or a page. Or henpecked. Or a gigolo giving her only his dick.

A woman who has gone through all the turns of hell, who has conquered the impossible for the right to stand on an equal footing with a man - but thereby not ascended to the very top, but, on the contrary, descended from the pedestal on which she was initially elevated, a woman on whose tender hands and shoulders such a thing is entrusted a lot... She cannot afford true exposure, the true nakedness of her essence. Under the armor of power in which she was forced to shackle herself, her inner component, her inner world, is overly vulnerable and sensitive. He needs to be hidden... and hides, sometimes for the rest of his life, and disappears unknown. And the armor-corset - solid, almost iron - over time fills the entire void, leaving nothing but the fulfillment of everyday duties, the struggle more often for survival and less often for the well-being of the family and each of the household members, the struggle in business, the struggle for independence - and that’s all In the end, for some reason, this does not bring pleasure, even if it brings material well-being, status, and external prosperity.

And even the freedom for which she has come such a difficult way no longer pleases, because there is a feeling that it is somehow different, artificial.

And the question arises - what am I living for?

A woman wonders why she has everything - but she still remains unhappy.

And he doesn’t find an answer to this question, habitually blaming someone who happened nearby.

My man.

He is not here? And it wasn't?

Then you can blame his absence.

Or more parents.

And it can be even bigger - a country!

“If only I could shift part of my load onto someone,” thinks a strong woman, truly strong; and he’s lucky, lucky, lucky, forgetting that not a single horse has yet become the chairman of the collective farm - although they carry the burden more than anyone else.

So what did the won rights give? Oh, they gave a lot! But in a fight, the winner always loses, too, and I had to pay for my main right - to be a woman. True, unique, only, beloved, loving and truly happy...

Let us look in your strength for the threads of this true femininity, which, like in the labyrinth of the Minotaur, the threads of Ariadne, will be able to bring to the light of the only religion, the only truth and formative force that overcomes and transforms everything - all of us, the world, and the essence of any phenomenon – to all-creating love that relieves pain.

I know what it will be like to be transformed by love, transformed by truth. A strong woman will remain strong, since it is impossible to rewind the turns of evolution and undo the transformations that she so sought and went through. Our path leads only forward, and therefore women who have now become strong must again discover within themselves the springs and brightest streams of the true essence. They will not lose anything, they will not give anything in return, not even strength! They will only gain by opening up and accepting their main right - to be a woman!

And the strength of a strong woman should help her complement herself, reveal these truly feminine qualities in herself. The force took the woman away from femininity - now let it lead her back to her essence!

Should you give up your position if you are a businesswoman, trousers, open clothes and short haircuts? From modern lifestyle and behavior?

No, we are not talking about the external world in which we live; Our task is to bring about true evolution with a simple and clear goal. The evolution of true femininity.

Our task is to learn to live a full, joyful life, in harmony and painlessness, in happiness - and not someday, but right now, when you comprehend these lines, realize the guiding power of this book. Accept it with your heart!

The current times are such that individual evolution allows us to shift the boundaries of time and space. The era of change has come, the era of spirituality and the dominance of personal potential; and therefore a strong woman can take another half step and turn into a harmonious woman, finding happiness and throwing away the everyday pain that is ingrained into the skin.