The husband suggested changing underwear. What is the most gentle way to refuse? “My husband wears my underwear”: how to feel about this? Dressing my husband in women's clothes

Then it seemed to be forgotten, then there were exams, college. But even after admission, I often had to put it on when she had doubts about my friends. Basically, she kept me in a bra until I started dating seriously.

Why am I writing in the green column? It’s just funny to imagine a man choosing women’s panties for himself in a store.

grolii. 01/31/10I thought we'll talk about women who love/don’t love, but here they’re all fagots. And by the way, there’s no need to attack corn, I’m also a girl, I wear underwear, but I don’t really like it. It’s uncomfortable, it’s constantly tight. I’ll just get home and take everything off.

And how women's panties fit on his sexy ass. And how charming his body looks in silk negligees. And only a woman who likes her husband in women's clothing can understand how much pleasure you get from buying him these things. You approach the counter, see beautiful lingerie, and imagine it on your husband. and you can't help but buy it.

By the way, modern society is also characterized by the substitution of concepts. So I’ll say that someone who simply likes women’s wardrobe items is not necessarily a transvestite, much less a gay. I just have free thinking, I’m a bit of an anarchist, I think that freedom is the main thing.

Oleg Sharov. 12/05/12 What are you saying? Guys? Are you tired of wearing women's underwear?

04/08/12, Andrew 974This underwear is softer and much more beautiful than men's underwear!

04/25/12, irisha manMy first girlfriend asked me to wear her clothes. This excited her a lot. And they only had sex when I was in full female attire.

04/26/11, Mrs Bean Again and again my love for women's underwear is reborn. Probably because I love everything beautiful. Including feeling this beauty for yourself. There is simply nothing so wonderful in a man’s wardrobe.

07/29/10, olenamsfrom the sense of hygiene after all! Those who like to sit naked in public places don’t understand. There are nesting dolls, which in general. in the toilet they sit on a pooped toilet seat.

I don’t know what to do in my heart, I’m a Man!

10/04/12, denisosaikka it’s comfortable to fuck in it, or rather, it’s convenient when you’re being fucked. and in general, women's underwear is much more beautiful and comfortable. So I either wear women's panties or don't wear underwear at all. and no one can forbid me this. And men's underpants are the ugliest thing that has been invented by mankind.

Someone masturbated in them, then threw them away and bought them again, but in the end it’s impossible to part with women’s panties, as well as stockings and bodysuits. People, wear women's panties like I do! If you wish, write about your fantasies. I will be very glad to see your revelation.

I love lycra stockings, lace and silk panties, transparent negligees, miniskirts, bras. In general, a man in women's underwear looks incredibly erotic, unless he is a jock. I love it when a strong man fucks me, and I’m wearing transparent stockings and a bra. Just don't think that I'm a homosexual!

It's always more comfortable without underwear. And it’s more comfortable with stockings. So Kukuruku says everything correctly. Stockings rule!

11/18/10, serggik I love wearing lingerie because it’s so cool, it fits nicely. Most of all I like to wear white lacy panties and tights, it’s a pity that I have to hide it under my trousers. You may not believe it, but recently all my clothes have been mine my wife buys it. After the accident, when they began to undress me in the hospital, everyone was in shock, my wife couldn’t come to her senses for a long time, I didn’t see all this for obvious reasons. And then I was shocked when on February 23 I saw in the gift package not ordinary family clothes, but expensive lingerie, and even a complete set of a silk nightgown and robe that are so pleasantly cool and smooth on the skin. SUCH EXCITATION. And wearing tights is very practical, especially in winter, 40 deniers under trousers are so warmer. And I don’t care who says what about this. It's just cool.

01/14/11, real emoWell, not exactly women’s clothes, of course, but unisex clothes. This is very cool and beautiful

11/18/11, MedjinaI love wearing lingerie, it's natural because I'm a woman. But even more I love to see women's underwear and women's clothing on her husband. There is nothing more erotic than seeing his slender legs in thin stockings with openwork elastic band.

01/05/10, Akai RooI am turned on by the feeling of women's underwear on me. It's so light and sexy. I imagine myself as a woman, or a faggot. It seems to me that I even smell like a woman, a female, when I’m dressed up and wearing makeup. It's very exciting.

Soon there was a wedding, and everything was forgotten. And then, 5 years later, either my sister or she herself told my wife that I was sitting in her bra for almost 3 years. This excited my wife wildly and she also wanted to try it. Oddly enough, both she and I liked the experience. But she puts her underwear on me only with my consent.

And she painted my eyes and lips. Got used to manicure and pedicure. Otherwise you won't have enough tights. I became softer in character when everything was feminine.

03/02/11, earthling26 I love, I simply adore, wearing women's panties, they are much more comfortable than men's. I also love wearing pads - it’s an unforgettable experience.

04/01/11, Julius33 I tried it for the first time at the age of 16. Then my mother put on me a bra with cotton wool inserted under my T-shirt, because I had done a lot of damage. And then I wore it every day for almost a year, when I came home from school. It’s good that my breast size is not particularly large (3), in the winter it was nothing, but in the spring I had to sit at home almost all the time.

02/09/11, QveenArthur And I like guys in lingerie, it excites me, I am right among those women who like men who look like women, i.e. sexy, I love them like a man. In my city, it’s somehow strange with this, there are rarely such people, or my taste is too refined: I love thin, loud, transparent men, I would fall in love with them, these cute and desirable ones! QveenArthur

07/19/11, ThanatoS I’m wondering what has to go wrong in a guy’s brain for him to start wearing bikinis and bras? It seems to me that this is already some kind of mental deviation and sexual perversion. After all, they also end up because of it.

08/29/10, it’s just much more beautiful than men’s and more comfortable.

01/16/11, PaRaZiT I love to wear lingerie, I wear: thongs, just panties, mini skirts, bras, I use pads and tampons. My girlfriend approved of this, now we buy panties and bras for her and me together, we pick out pads and tampons together (by the way, I recommend Kotex) and that’s it. You should try it, and it’s especially cool to touch yourself in all this. Mmmmm)

In general, I don't see anything wrong with wearing women's underwear. I'm not a transvestite or a pervert. Everything is fine with my wife too.

07/18/11, alekc29 I often buy gifts for girls, flowers, and expensive underwear. And I notice right now that many men are buying for themselves. And I asked the sellers, they say, yes, many buy and wear. I don’t see anything bad since we live and everyone is their own master. I myself know people who wear women’s panties and they have a family and it doesn’t interfere. So wear it in good health.

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Boycko. 01/16/11Wearing women's panties is the surest sign of latent homosexuality.

01/05/12, Nikita91yes I love wearing lingerie

10/15/10, Julia I won’t say Yes, because I’m a woman. But I don’t really like bras - I have very sensitive shoulder blades, and sometimes I just can’t stand the straps there! At home I get along quite well without bras.

At night, at night, during the day, as long as it’s not noticeable.

They come in a variety of panties just for girls, including lace and translucent ones, which is why I like them. If we consider tights and stockings to be underwear, then I also like them and there is nothing like it in the men's wardrobe. In general, I think that a person has the right to wear the clothes that he himself wants, and not those that are imposed by social stereotypes.

IF YOUR HUSBAND DOESN'T DRINK OR SMOKE, THIS DOESN'T MEAN THAT HE'S NORMAL

Natalya and Alexey lived together for twenty years. And who would have thought that a family holiday, a wedding anniversary, would become a terrible milestone in their lives...

The daughter was visiting her mother-in-law. The couple were left at home alone. Natasha decided to arrange a romantic dinner for her husband, smoothly turning into bed. She lit candles and, on the advice of a friend, prepared exotic dishes, the names of which she didn’t really know, to increase sexual desire.

For the same purpose, Natasha bought an expensive fiery red peignoir. I reasoned this way: my husband and I are no longer young, we need additional stimulants. So she stimulated. The final touch remains - a bath with essential oils.

“Don’t be bored, I’ll be there soon,” the wife said coquettishly and ran into the bathroom.

But when she returned for a forgotten expensive new thing, she was dumbfounded. The picture she saw in the bedroom shocked her.

“I was just in shock,” says Natalya. — Alexey was spinning in front of the mirror, trying on my peignoir.

Seeing his wife’s reflection in the mirror, Alexey turned around in fear. The peignoir fell from his hands.

“Natasha, I’ll explain everything to you,” and, jumping up to his wife, Alexey sat her down on the bed.

Natalya listened to his story to the end. Then she silently got dressed and left the house.

Relationship

Twenty years family life As you know, they don’t add passion to a relationship. The life of Alexei and Natalya had long been following a well-trodden rut. The friendly relations of the spouses were occasionally interrupted by small celebrations of intimacy. Both were happy with this relationship. Millions of people live like this...

“Since childhood, I was taught not to wash dirty linen in public.” But if I continue to remain silent, I’ll go crazy,” Natasha took a drag from her cigarette, collected her thoughts for a long time and finally began.

— This happened about a year ago. I sent my daughter to my mother for the holidays. My husband and I were left at home alone. We decided to have a little holiday for ourselves. I set the table, turned on quiet music, and opened a bottle of expensive wine. I started a frank conversation. I told my husband about my sexual fantasies, that I like to wear beautiful lingerie and caress myself. This makes me very excited. True, he confessed something to me too. Alyosha said that my feelings were close to him. He experiences the same thing himself. I jokingly asked if he belonged to a sexual minority? To which Lesha replied: “No, I’m a lesbian.”

And although I didn’t pay much attention to his words at the time, they never left my head...

And when I found Leshka in front of the mirror, he told me everything... He was 14 years old. One day, a smartly dressed woman came to visit them. He looked at her outfit for a long time, trying it on himself in his mind. And I felt very excited. Since then, such thoughts visited him constantly. Once he put things in order in the house, and his mother praised him for it: “You’re just like a girl to me.” These words had such an effect on him that Lesha locked himself in the toilet and experienced a strong orgasm for the first time.

For twenty-five years now, my husband has been secretly dressing in women's clothing. He even buys bras in the store and says they are for his wife. I was shocked when I found out that he sometimes even went to work in women’s underwear. Yes, he is a good man, hard-working, and he can hammer a nail and fix a shelf. But I can’t be near him, as I’ll remember what he does in my absence.

Treason

After talking with her husband, Natasha needed to be alone, alone with her thoughts. Natasha wandered the streets of the city for a long time. Then I went to the first cafe I came across.

— Episodes from my life with Lesha flashed through my head like pictures from a video. I myself didn’t notice how time flew by. It was too late. An unfamiliar man approached me. We started talking. He invited me for a cup of tea at his home. I felt offended, insulted. I wanted to take revenge on Lesha. While the kettle was boiling, I managed to go into the bathroom and clean myself up. My “boyfriend” did not follow my example and immediately threw me onto the bed. He reeked unbearably of fumes and sweat. And then he turned to the wall and began to snore. I felt disgusted and sick.

Then I remembered Lesha’s words. He always said that you need to listen to your partner’s wishes. Both should experience pleasure from sex. In general, revenge failed and I only got worse.

In the morning, Natasha took the bus and went with her daughter to her mother in one of the regional centers.

“I thought that being away from my husband I would forget him faster,” says Natalya. “But every day I feel more and more drawn to him.” I was homesick. I don't know how to continue living. Lesha is not a drunkard, not a drug addict, not a criminal, he adores the child and me, he carries me in his arms. Am I really going to leave him just because he wears women's clothes? I love Lesha, but I don’t know if I can accept him like this? Maybe he needs treatment, and is there any treatment for this?

This story will seem a little wild to you, but still I decided to write to your site to get some useful advice. My name is Alexander, and my wife is Irina. But I didn’t always look so feminine.

We met Irina in a nightclub, where our two companies crossed paths, in which there were acquaintances and friends, and so we ended up at the same table. I immediately noticed her, pumped up, athletic, well-groomed, and she, oddly enough, me. Although, as I understand it, she did not suffer from attention at all. That evening many people came up to meet her, quite nice and large guys. But she brushed them aside like annoying flies and did not take her drunken eyes off me. Although I am a completely inconspicuous guy, tall but slender, my character is soft, not decisive. They say about such people that “he should have been born a girl.”

After a while she sat down next to me, half an hour later she pulled me towards her and hugged me, putting her hand on top of my shoulder. I was very pleased with this, but it seemed wild. But still, in my heart I understood that it would be damn nice for me.

That night we went to see her. Her apartment was large and luxurious, it turned out that she had her own business in the beauty industry. In general, she was almost professionally involved in female bodybuilding, which is why she had such a strong, strong body. She dominated in bed, and even then I began to get the incredible impression that we had switched roles. I loved kissing her toned shoulders, arms, legs...

After six months of courtship (hers was more likely to follow me than mine), Irina herself proposed tying the knot in marriage, since she realized that she had nothing better than me. They got married and began to live together.

Soon, Irina demanded that I quit my job, since she was able to support both of us. I agreed and began to run the house - cleaning, cooking, in general, doing all women's chores.

Ultimate feminization

After some time, Irina suddenly told me that she would call me Alexandra and that it was time for me to become who I should be and, also, stated that I should understand who the “man” in the family really is, and who are not at all. I was already accustomed to such extravagant actions of my wife and reluctantly agreed.

However, it didn't end there. She started buying me women's clothes, underwear, and I had to wear it all (still only at home). I had to grow it long hair, visit all sorts of beauty salons for skin care, do hair removal.

Also, my Irina calls stylists and others to my house, they teach me how to put on makeup, create different looks for me. In general, I began to turn into a thin, pretty girl. Honestly, I realized that this was my destiny.

We had a complete sensation in bed. Various devices from intimate stores began to appear, which finally made me a woman in everything. Irina especially enjoyed putting a 25 cm strap-on on herself and making me squeal with pleasure in all positions.

After some time, I began to live a full woman’s life, Irina completely ceased to be interested in my “unit” in bed, but my buttocks in beautiful women’s panties - yes!

Sometimes we go to other cities, where I have to in public places look like a girl. At the same time, Irina introduces me as her friend and, you know, no one ever doubted that this was not so. Since my voice, by nature, was almost feminine, high, and my appearance, after a ton of makeup and the right clothes, became 100% girlish.

Still, she has not abandoned traditional relationships and sometimes brings quite normal men into the house. As usual, he introduces me as his friend. He sends me to sleep in the living room, where I hear drunken speeches and laughter and, then, a long creaking bed from the bedroom. Often, she comes to me and, laughing, sits on my face and makes me satisfy myself to the end. I have to do this, feeling the smell of her desire and the taste of another man’s nectar, which often just flows over my lips and I have to drink it all so as not to choke...

She recently said that she wants to find a lover who would love both of us in bed. But I am tormented by doubts: is this right for me personally? After all, I'm hetero. Or after all, Irina and all her desires are my destiny and better than life no for me? I really want to see your answers in the comments!

Alexander(a) Petrov(a)

Wearing underwear (and sometimes clothes) of the opposite sex and diversifying your intimate life in this way is a type of fetishism. Some people regard such dressing up as an acceptable way to realize secret fantasies, while others believe that if a husband puts on his wife’s underwear, then this is an inexplicable, almost painful oddity...

Who is right and how to react if your husband is interested in trying on your panties - we discuss it on the site.

The first question that comes to mind if a husband loves lingerie.

Let's start with a few facts:

• Stockings with suspenders, tights, leggings and even slimming corsets in ancient times were part of the men's wardrobe, and were invented by men and for men. Also from men's fashion Today's slip-on panties for women came into being. If you look globally, then the big question is who wears whose underwear...
• The overwhelming majority of men who confess their interest in women's underwear are not homosexuals and do not feel any attraction to men.
• Men who sometimes try on women's underwear are not transgender (that is, they do not intend to change their sex by resorting to medicine).
• They are also not transvestites (that is, men who make their appearance as close as possible to that of a woman through clothing and cosmetics).
• This is not a psychiatric disorder. Not a single psychiatric diagnosis has symptoms only of cross-dressing - “crazy people” are determined by a mass of completely different complex signs. Even if a person with disabilities dresses up as a woman, he behaves strangely in many other situations.

That is, in 99% of cases we are dealing with an ordinary man, with a traditional orientation and quite standard views on relationships with women, sex, marriage, having children, etc. Even if you found out this fact about your own husband, do not rush to write him down in the “dubious” 1%!!!

But why does my husband wear my underwear?!

For what? The most amazing thing is that sometimes the fetishist husband himself cannot give an intelligible sincere answer and even has a very complex about this!

But the reasons for wanting to wear elements of a woman’s wardrobe can have very deep roots in the subconscious. For example:

• A man unconsciously “plays in contrast” and emphasizes... his masculinity! If in ordinary life he may feel not successful enough, not strong enough, not very self-confident, not pumped up and unathletic - that is, “not a man enough” - then lingerie sharply outlines his masculine features of appearance and physique! The husband wears stockings - and his hairy male legs seem even hairier and wider, the genitals in tight female panties seem larger, etc. This is all psychological training- the goal is not to transform into a woman, but on the contrary - to show himself that the female role definitely does not suit him, he is 100% a man!
• Society at all times has harshly driven men into the framework of gender behavior. “Boys don’t cry”, “a real man should...”, “you’re a man...”, “what a girl you are!”, “don’t be a woman!” - this is what men hear all their lives. But men can also have aspirations, emotions and experiences that are not traditionally considered “masculine.” If a man begins to show them in real life, this threatens loss of reputation, shame and condemnation. Sometimes it’s easier to arrange a “game” - to give a harmless outlet to your “feminine essence”. This is what changing clothes does. If lingerie is worn for role-playing with a partner, a man may be interested in “switching genders” - so that the woman takes the lead in sex, uses a strap-on, etc. - this way he can pretend to realize those emotions that cannot be shown in the male gender role.
• A subconscious desire to receive from society (or even from a partner) something that men are usually not entitled to. For example, women are always taken care of more, they are given more respect, a woman can legally be weak and defenseless! Of course, underwear itself does not in any way contribute to receiving care and patronage from someone, but it is an opportunity to feel weak and not be tormented by remorse because of your weakness.
• The feeling of a prohibition being violated with impunity is generally a very strong adrenaline rush. By dressing in women's clothes, a man breaks a big social taboo - “don't be a woman!” Perhaps, for the sake of this, a husband in tights under his trousers can go “in public” - so that he can always feel that he has outwitted and overpowered everyone, everyone whom he cannot “outplay” in various life situations...

What to do if you find out that your husband wears women's underwear?

Talk calmly in an intimate setting - how does he feel when putting on women's clothes, why does he need it? Try to arrange a “gender swap”, try to get used to the role of a “man” - maybe you’ll like it yourself!

If your husband does not hide his passion, but you don’t like it, and the sight of your husband in women’s underwear is unpleasant, try to agree when and how he can wear women’s clothes so as not to upset you and remain attractive to you as a man.

For example, do not take your wife’s underwear, but buy new ones for yourself, wear them when your wife is not at home or she is not looking, or wear them under regular clothes, but do not play dress-up in bed...